what first name basis is not

We’re not a recovery space, anti-alcohol group, nightclub, or public social network—just a discreet place to connect.

A softly lit, minimalist lounge with warm neutral tones and comfortable seating, evoking calm and privacy.
A softly lit, minimalist lounge with warm neutral tones and comfortable seating, evoking calm and privacy.

150+

15

trusted by members

invite only

What it isn’t

A calm reminder of what we don’t do here.

A softly lit, minimalist lounge space with empty chairs arranged quietly, evoking calm and discretion.
A softly lit, minimalist lounge space with empty chairs arranged quietly, evoking calm and discretion.
Not recovery

We’re not a recovery programme or support group.

Not anti-alcohol

Members may enjoy alcohol; it’s not a focus here.

Not a nightclub

This isn’t a loud, public party or social network.